Welcome
Whether you’re navigating the path to motherhood or your soul’s calling brought you here — this is a space for women in the midst of something sacred. Share with me where you are, and I’ll meet you there.
Your journey to motherhood
You’re longing to hold your baby in your arms. Whether you’re struggling to conceive, walking through loss, or seeking a deeper connection with your spirit baby — you’re not meant to do this alone. Feeling held, understood, and gently guided on this path makes all the difference.
Your soul’s journey
You feel the pull of something more — a deeper version of yourself waiting to emerge. You’re ready to open to your gifts, understand your soul’s purpose, and step more fully and confidently into the life you know is meant for you.
Here to Walk With You — Into Motherhood, and Into Yourself
Whatever brought you here — the longing for your baby, the ache of loss, or a quiet but persistent sense that there is more of you waiting to be known — you are in the right place. I work with women at the heart of something sacred and often tender, and my role is simply to walk alongside you. Through channelling, intuitive guidance, and healing energy, we work with your soul’s wisdom and, where you’re on the path to motherhood, with your babies too — in spirit, and in your arms.
If you’re sitting with Why me? Why is this happening? — or you simply need somewhere safe to begin — I’d love to offer you a free call. There’s no pressure and no agenda. Just a space to be heard, and to find your next step forward.
Birthing Your Babies
Birthing Self
Supporting you to meet your baby/s in spirit and in your arms.
If you’re struggling to conceive, walking through loss, or longing to feel closer to the baby whose presence you already sense — this is where we begin together. I work alongside your baby or babies, channelling their messages, thoughts, and healing, so you are never navigating this alone.
Together we explore the deeper questions: why this is happening, what your soul and your baby’s soul already know, and what needs to soften or heal so you can feel safer and more trusting on the path ahead. This work brings understanding, connection, and — gently — a greater sense of peace.
Answering your soul’s calling, remembering you.
You sense there’s more — more depth to you, more to open to, more of yourself waiting beneath the surface of daily life. That feeling is not imagination. It’s a calling.
Through channelled messages and insights, and by travelling deep into your energy and soul’s plan, we work together to understand your gifts, your soul’s purpose, and the patterns — from this lifetime or others — that are ready to release. What emerges is a truer, more grounded version of you: rooted in confidence, open to your natural intuitive gifts, and living more fully in the life you know is yours.
About Debra
Hi, I’m Debra, an energy healer, channel, spirit baby medium and author of Rosa’s Choice: Healing the wounds of the mother.
It was through my own challenging journey to motherhood that I awakened to a much bigger picture of life before life – the choices we made, why we chose to come and the experiences we wished to have.
Life in the here and now – what we’re here for, our role and gifts. And also life after death and how we can still connect with our babies and loved ones.
My role in this lifetime is to support women to gain a deeper understanding of themselves, birth more of who they are and their own truth, open up their natural intuitive gifts and power and if in conception, birth their babies.
Ways to work with me.
Debra’s Blog
Your soul chose before you arrived – and so has your baby
Your soul chose before you arrived – and so has your baby Imagine saying to a friend, come to my party but it’s pretty awful here so will likely be rubbish and not fun at all! How do you feel about your life on earth? Because your babies have a very different...
Birthday magic as my book Rosa’s Choice book turns 5!
A loving and inspiring message from Spirit baby A Little Birthday Magic for you as my book Rosa's Choice turns 5! It’s together, we rise. Honouring each other’s unique experiences and journeys. On Wednesday 20th May it's my birthday and also 5 years since my...
TFMR – a loving and inspiring message from spirit baby
TFMR - a loving and inspiring message from Spirit baby May 4th is TFMR awareness day and I’m beaming out love and compassion to all TFMR mums, baby loss mum’s and all women and couples on a challenging journey to motherhood. It’s together, we rise. Honouring...
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School of Creativity and Self-Development
"A few weeks ago, I was talking to Debra Kilby. She helps mothers deal with baby loss and how to welcome in new babies into this world. We were talking about what the term “mother-wound” actually means. Suffering from a mother wound at first level seems to suggest...
Meet the Goddess interview
Meet the Goddess links:A discussion on pre-conception struggles, baby spirit communication, baby loss and birth traumahttps://gaiasvoice.me/debra-kilby-is-with-gaias-voice/ Share this article: ...
Spirit Baby Radio
Spirit Baby Radio links:Direct link- http://spiritbabyradio.libsyn.com/-speaking-with-spirit-baby-after-loss-the-birth-of-a-new-consciousnessWeblink- https://www.soulbabycommunication.com/spirit-baby-radio-podcast.html Share this article: ...
Our Client Say!
Lena Voigt
Working with Debra is absolutly beautiful for me and deeply healing. I love how she holds a space of pure love and shares insights with wisdom, joy and compassion. Deep shifts and highest frequency. I already told you, dear Debra, how much our sessions meant to me. Thank you from the heart
Nina Stegelmann
I love working with Debra. After every session we have, my life unfolds in the most wonderful ways, so no wonder I keep coming back to her again and again. Debra’s work will enrich your life, I can highly recommend her.
Deirdre O’Donnell
Debra is a wonderfully intuitive healer. She holds a very gentle and loving space and guides one at their own pace and depth. She is a very experienced healer and spot on with her visions. Her soul reading helped me unlock and clear blocks so I could move forward in my life. Her readings and meditations lend themselves to many ah ha moments. It is powerful deep work that I’d highly recommend.
Meng Ni Xu
I received a wonderful reading at the end of Dec 2018. She is been patient in answering me the questions. what I like about the reading is that they are very accurate, precise and full of details and good vibe of energies in it. I even feel my energies shift a bit by listening to the reading itself. I think the price has been very reasonable given that Debra has put a lot of time and efforts in giving us both the session and Source message. Thank you Debra
