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Wednesday Worldly Wisdom – message from spirit. Today – what lies beyond the pain of baby loss and fertility struggles?

Baby loss and fertility struggles – looking beyond the pain

.”And so now to your baby group and the gift upon gifts that your babies are offering you. For we know that they do not feel like gifts. These gifts of loss, these gifts of abandonment, these gifts of loneliness and grief and unworthiness.

And yet we see it differently. We see it as a gift of self-awareness, a gift of healing for as each woman rises through the pain of loss to see to the other side of it, they will see their very own baby spirits staring right back at them.

They will see their very own baby spirits being exactly what they have and always will be – their love, their gift – no matter whether that be here in person or in spirit. For there are very many gifts on this journey to motherhood.

The bitterness and the bile that can arise from a lost loved one or one who has been waiting for many years for their baby to arrive. And their baby may well be saying –

Not yet – for I am not ready. And I also can see that you are not ready. For the bitterness and anger that my journey with you has brought up has not come from this journey with me but from a journey perhaps earlier in this lifetime or even another.  And it is this gift we offer you, that we are offering you as you grieve us and wait for us. The gift of seeing all of this that lies within you that you truly no longer need to be holding as you lift yourselves ever more higher and higher towards the light.’

For this is what your Soul wishes to do, lift higher and higher out of the energies of the mud, of the doom and the gloom, the guilt and the heartache and the anger and the blame; the loss and the resentment, the hard done by and the victim.

For you are none of these things.

You are women of light. You have chosen and been chosen to be women of light. And so you must be true to yourselves as holders and carriers of the light to first clear the way through all of these lower resentments and energies in order for you to not only see yourselves as light and carriers of light – but be the carriers of light that we agreed upon with you oh so many moons ago.

And we wish you well our beautiful, courageous women of light, for we know this is far from an easy journey. We too had to experience the loss of the light in our lifetimes in order for us to realise that we are indeed the light. And we wish you well on your journeys to see your light, feel it and embrace it and to welcome the gifts of your babies here in spirit, whether they are to return or not.

For they are always with you and always by your side on your journey ever more out of the darkness and into the true light of yourselves. And it is to them that they will come, in droves and masses that you have never seen the like of before.

And so please accept our love and please accept our gifts for we have nothing but love for you and this is all we wish you to see.

So just as you can imagine yourselves waking us up gently from our slumbers when we finally reach your world, so too this is what we are asking of you; that you too are awakening from your own slumbers and your own pain in order to see the light that is you and the light that is in front of you, for always.

And so it is.

Our highest blessings of light for you all.”

Rosa x


If you are need of support, wish to understand your journey on a deeper level, clear and rise out of the pain and into the joy of you as a carrier of light, then please do take a look at my New Beginnings – journey to motherhood programmes for baby loss and birth trauma and sacred conception. www.debrakilby.com

Or book in here for a free 30 minute life clarity call so we can see where you are now, where you would like to get to, what is stopping you from getting there – and how – we can release any blocks to get you to who you truly and where you wish to be.



With love



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