Pre-conception, baby loss and birth trauma specialist and baby spirit communicator.

Pre-conception, baby loss and birth trauma specialist and baby spirit communicator.

Sacred Conception

Clearing the way to awaken yourself, awaken your fertility and awaken your connection with your baby in waiting.

My deepest desire…

My deepest desire is for you to free yourself from the pain, the spiralling thoughts and questions, the when, the why, the how and gain a deeper understanding of yourself, your journey to motherhood and experience the connection with your babies in spirit pre-conception until you meet in person.

The overwhelm of emotions on your journey to motherhood are unique to each mum and often so complex it is almost impossible to know how you feel. It is so easy to get caught up in a cycle of sadness, fear and disempowerment. To lose sense of yourself and what life was like before you embarked on this journey to motherhood.

The constant questioning, The why me? What I am doing wrong? Or, what is wrong with me? To the destructive – and completely untrue – mind chatter that tells you that you don’t deserve to be a mum, you’re not good enough, your body is too old or broken or that you are a failure.
I am here to help you unravel all of your emotions and beliefs and transform yourself, your life and your journey to motherhood.

You are precious, you are powerful, it is time to step into your sacred space of womanhood and creativity and welcome in your future child.

Babies are waiting! This beautiful and powerful message of hope and healing is what I have been shown and receiving since 2016. They are waiting to be held, waiting to be welcomed, acknowledged and waiting for us to connect with them. This is a huge and charged topic and perhaps a little difficult for many of us to take on board, and yet, as a channel for spirit, this is my role and my life purpose to enable mums in waiting and their future babies in spirit to connect. Also, given my experiences on my own journey to motherhood, a hugely personal one.

Each and every one of us has our own unique journey, just as each and every baby spirit has it’s own choices and path in life. Is it time to try another way? A more conscious and sacred conception journey and add the missing element? I invite you to begin to transform your journey now, to be guided to reconnect with yourself and connect with your babies in spirit during this programme – New Beginnings – Sacred Conception.

Are you ready for a new beginning?

The journey to motherhood often seems like such a natural and easy process for many, however for some of us this journey can take us to places of pain and loss we wouldn’t wish on anyone. I am here to help you unravel the complex emotions that can so often overwhelm us on this journey; to understand them and change them.

Enable you to see yourself and your experience in a different way from the one you currently see. I
know there is always an explanation for unexplained infertility.

I have experienced this myself and seen my clients who are mums in waiting blossom as together we heal your emotions, change any beliefs that may be holding you back from becoming a mum, and transform your journey to motherhood to one of joy.

You will understand and feel more deeply connected to yourself and your future baby/ies to transform the pain and ultimately your life.

During our 3 months together…

  • You will awaken yourself, your sacred feminine power and knowing, your fertility and your trust in yourself and your future babies. Your journey with me will take you from your current place of pain, confusion and questioning, feelings of anger, bitterness and feeling unable to cope, or guilt, shame and failure – to one of love – for yourself and your baby. A place of peace with a deeper understanding of yourself, your experience and a connection with your future baby. Who are they and what do they need or are waiting for?

We will do this by:

  • Setting the foundations and intentions for your transformation, healing the heart and womb, Soul healing and discovery and simple energy healing tools to reduce stress. Stress takes an enormous toll on our bodies and creates an in-balance in our hormones. Reducing our mind chatter and what we say to ourselves will massively reduce our stress.
  • We will identify and clear any emotional trauma from life events. This may lead us all the way back to your own birth and childhood to release not only any trauma but also resolve, release and change any hidden and unhelpful beliefs and patterns that were formed at this time that are that are blocking your pregnancy dreams.
  • Release any trauma around your journey to motherhood experiences. This may include miscarriage, or IVF, a medical diagnosis, or relationship issues.
  • Unravel and clear any emotions that are keeping you stuck in the pain and from moving forward.
  • Identify any beliefs and patterns that you are either aware or unaware of. For example – “I’m not worthy”; “life is a struggle”; I’m too old”; I never get what I want”; “Baby’s ruin your body/life”. These beliefs can be picked up and ingrained in us from a very young age depending on our experiences and we don’t even realise they are there. Or perhaps there is still a fear of getting pregnant that comes from your teenage years as you were growing into your sacred sexual self that we will turn around.
  • Through our sacred sessions together, you will gain a deeper understanding of your experience and find peace and resolution.
  • Acknowledge how your experience maybe affecting your life now and change the direction to a life you wish to create.
  • Heal any wounds and forgiveness surrounding your experience.
  • Set the intention for connecting in with your baby spirit, and asking what they need.
  • Rise, knowing the truly incredible and powerful woman you are beneath the layers of life.
  • You will also receive a Soul Plan Reading. By truly acknowledging yourself, your Soul’s plan, including any challenges, gifts and goals, you will understand yourself and your journey at a much deeper level, and in turn, help you to understand and respect your baby as a spiritual being with their own journey.

I have been pregnant six times and am now a very blessed mum with two beautiful boys.

Coming to this place of peace and acceptance and yes, even gratitude for the four very unique experiences of baby loss has not been an easy journey, but it is one that has created a profound healing and connection I couldn’t ever have imagined 8 years ago.

I am now able to connect in with my very much alive spirit babies, understand the deep meaning and the bigger picture to life and help other women to heal from this devastating loss.

Lets connect…

You are invited to join a sacred Facebook group and connect with other women with similar experiences to share and gain support. In this Facebook group there will be a special ceremony to honour your baby/ies in spirit, meditations to help you connect in with your baby, healing meditations, love and support.

“There are many, many babies here waiting for you. Waiting for you to bring them into form, waiting to be welcomed, waiting to be loved, waiting for you to show yourselves as the true parents you are. The parents who will love, honour and respect them for the spirits that they are.

My message is do not fear for if you feel them in your space, or you feel you are a mum already, then this is indeed the case for they are with you and letting you know that.

Trust that, believe that, no matter what is going on for you, for they are here of that I assure you. And they are playing and they are gathering and they are waiting. So decide now whether it is them that you truly want, or whether there is something stopping you from welcoming them in.

It is unconditional love that is needed here and for that to take place you must first look to the love that you feel for yourself. For without this love of yourself then how will you be able to show them the way?”

Channelled from Rosa, my own spirit baby and mentor in the baby spirit realm.

Connecting with yourself; connecting with your future baby.
Conception, whether natural or assisted, is more than a physical act. You are inviting another sacred human being into your life; a being who has their own journey and needs. You and your baby/s are on this journey together and you can begin bonding with them before they arrive. They too need to be heard.
By understanding yourself and your own journey, you are more able to guide and respect the unique journeys of your babies.
The babies arriving in the world now have such a special mission to bring light to the earth, they very much need their parents to understand them as the unique souls they are.

There is always an explanation for unexplained fertility.
Are you aware of the stories you are telling yourself about conception, being pregnant, giving birth, being a mum? Do you feel worthy? Or scared you won’t be able to cope? Feel that life is a struggle, dangerous, or unfair and you don’t get what you want? Or do you think you are too old? What you believe about yourself is so powerful and has a huge effect on how your body responds.
Whether we believe we can or believe we can’t, we’re right.
Changing your thoughts and beliefs about yourself and your journey and the emotions around they bring, will ultimately change your whole perspective on life.

Bringing new life into the world is the most creative act you can perform.
As women, we are powerful creators. However, when you are desperate to hold your baby in your arms and it’s not happening, it can also feel the most isolating and destructive. This journey brings up such an overwhelm of emotions, that feeling alive and in joy of life and creation, is the farthest thing from your mind. In fact life feels on hold. Imagine instead how you would feel if you just knew that your baby was coming, whether that be in a year or 3 years? How differently would you feel about yourself, your life? How differently would your body be responding? Your motherhood journey is life. Is it time to try a new way of embracing you and your journey?

Here to help you transform your life

Hi, I’m Debra and I’m an energy healer, intuitive guide, channel for Spirit and baby spirit communicator. I am a very blessed mum of two beautiful boys – a journey to motherhood that has led me to being here with you now.

My Soul’s calling is to support mums and mums in waiting on their journeys to motherhood. To help you connect more deeply with yourselves, your babies here, and in spirit.

Following the loss of four of my babies, of which there was no obvious physical or medical reason on my part, I started on my own quest to find answers. Why me? Why didn’t they stay? What had I done wrong? How on earth was I going to ever feel better? And my big question – was there another little Soul out there for me.

I found these answers by going within – and in doing so, also found my ‘self’, my life purpose and my connection with my own babies, future baby and so many babies in spirit.

My heartfelt wish is to guide mums and mums in waiting to a deeper understanding of themselves and their journey to motherhood. Help them release and find resolution to past traumas and challenging experiences. To bond with and understand that their babies here and babies and future babies in spirit have their own choices and journeys to make.

I am a qualified Spiritual Counsellor, EFT (tapping), Matrix and Birth Matrix Reimprinting, Advanced Theta Healer and Advanced Soul Plan Reader. I have been practising energy healing since 2010.

I am a member of the HHC – Holistic Healing College, EFTMRA association and Theta Healing Institute of Knowledge.

What people are saying…

I was lucky enough to get to work with Debra on Skype. Initially having a soul reading and then following on from that 6 sessions. I didn’t know what to expect and felt nervous.. Debra has such a kind and genuine way that it can feel like you have known her all your life! The sessions were like counselling in that she brought to the forefront any limiting beliefs and negative feelings I didn’t even realise I had. She helped me clear them allowing me to feel lighter and more relaxed in myself. During the 6 weeks friends and family got positive news ‘re pregnancy.. she encouraged me to look beyond my “im happy for them” face and be honest with myself.. now I can genuinely be excited for anyone blessed to get pregnant around me. I am feeling balanced and not attached to the outcome of my own journey. It’s great to be in this place so thank you Debra.. I hope to work with you again in the future.

Jules

“Every session with Debra was healing, affirming and uplifting. She offered practical guidance, and combined this with more alternative exercises, it was a very holistic therapy. “The thing I loved most was that she helped me understand and love who I am, and become the person I’m meant to be. Debra helped me to believe in myself and follow my dream: and for that, I will be forever grateful.”

Rachel, aged 32

“Thank you for helping me to heal – I appreciate it more than I can say! You have a beautiful energy that is very soothing and comforting. It was a tremendous gift to go through this experience with you.”

Sacha, Ohio

“I worked with Debra to address a very personal problem. Debra made me feel at ease and was able to get to the root cause in a couple of sessions. I felt listened to and understood. Above all I felt calm. Debra also gave me the tools to continue working on myself at home. “I would highly recommend her service. She is professional, personable, warm, and above all a great person who I feel comfortable with”.

Julie, London

“Debra is the most warm, gentle, positive and effective force in my life. She has been such a generous source of support and helped me to transform the things that are holding me back so I can forge a path forward. Debra is engaging and intuitive, is always encouraging and supportive and I feel she has a genuine interest in my happiness and wellbeing.”

Caroline, London

Transform your journey to motherhood

Imagine how you would be living life if you weren’t feeling how you are right now?

If you had a deeper understanding of yourself, felt able to love yourself? Experienced a connection with your future baby? Were approaching your journey to motherhood with a sense of excitment and joy, empowered and trusting of yourself and your future baby? This is sacred conception.

Sacred Conception

Clearing the way to awaken yourself, awaken your fertility and awaken your connection with your baby in waiting.

New Beginnings – Sacred Conception

£777

Soul Plan Reading, channelled message and Soul Plan alignment. The reading takes a few days to prepare and the session itself is 2 hours.

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Setting the scene and opening up the space for you and your baby/s. Intention setting and energetic healing to lay the foundations of our time together, including beliefs, soul fragment retrieval, cord-cutting and healing the broken heart.

90-minute session.

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Exploring and releasing emotional trauma from life events. This may go back to your own birth story

60-minute session.

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Exploring and releasing emotional trauma from life events.

60-minute session.

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Identifying and transforming beliefs that may be holding you back from becoming a mum.
60-minute session.

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Identifying and transforming beliefs that may be holding you back from becoming a mum.

60-minute session.

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Bringing it all together, connecting and aligning you to your mum energy and the energy of your future baby/s
90-minute session.

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Bonus 1

Weekly email support, total of five opportunities for questions,

guidance and support.

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Bonus 2

Channelled message of guidance as you move through the programme.

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Bonus 3

Recorded meditations – connecting with your baby/s in spirit.

Healing the heart and womb
Space clearing of mind, body and home

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Bonus 4

Tarot card reading for guidance and suggestions on affirmations and mantras.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is birth trauma?

Trauma occurs when you feel there is a threat of death of yourself or a loved one, you feel helpless and isolated. Birth trauma can involve dramatic, life threatening events in pregnancy, during birth or after. Or moments where you feel a loss of control, dignity, disempowered, not listened to, not fully informed of what is happening by medical staff and unmanaged pain. Our own birth stories can dramatically effect our thoughts, beliefs and experiences of becoming a mum and by exploring this through Birth Matrix Reimprinting, we will identify and clear anything which is holding you back from bringing your own baby into the world.

Why would I work with you?

I have been to some very dark places on my journey to motherhood, healed from them with a deeper understanding and gratitude for them, and not only transformed my life but discovered my life purpose. And my life purpose as an intuitive guide, channel for spirit and baby spirit communicator is to support women and their babies here and in spirit to heal, reconnect with yourself and your baby.

When can I take the sessions?

You can book one off sessions using the link below. When booking 3 or more sessions we will look together at what feels right.

Is there a payment plan?

Yes. If you sign up for 3 or more sessions.

Do I have to be spiritual to sign up to the programme?

Everyone is spiritual! If you have found your way to my page you have been guided to it and are ready.

What is my role in the process?

I fully believe that if I show up, you show up, then magic happens. Committing to yourself by investing time and money in yourself will already begin the healing process. You are worthy, deserving and enough. This is for you.

Do I need to be on Facebook or Skype

Our sessions will take place on Skype, or Facebook messenger or in person if you live in London.

Is it really possible to connect with my spirit baby?

Yes! Spirit babies make their own choices, and like us, they have their personal energy frequencies, so there are no guarantees a connection will be made. However, my own experience is those spirit babies who wish to, love connecting. My heartfelt desire is that I share with you the tools and meditations for you to connect with your babies in spirit yourself. As Einstein taught, we are all energy, everything is energy and energy cannot be created or destroyed, only transformed. We are always connected.

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